Day 2 – It’s Okay to Eat: Giving Yourself Permission
After a long history of dieting or restrictive eating it can warp your mind into thinking you can’t or shouldn’t eat certain foods. As each new diet hits the market another macronutrient is attacked and eliminated. It was fat in the 90’s, carbohydrates in early 00’s, gluten in the mid 00’s, grains and fruits in the late 00’s and the newest is the poison of sugar. Attempting to eliminate food or macronutrients from your diet will only result in shame or guilt.
Shame and guilt is directly associated with the feeling of restriction and deprivation leading to binging.
For example, in the past you decided to embark on the low carb fad. You eliminate all the carbohydrate from your diet. At first everything seems to be going great, but all of a sudden carbohydrates seem to be following you everywhere you go. You can’t seem to avoid them and after a short time of not eating them, you give in to the temptation and eat a cookie. You feel so guilty and beat yourself up for eating the cookie. “Why did I ruin it by eating that cookie, now I can’t stop at just one. Well, I might as well keep ruining my diet by eating more.”
Guilt = Restrictive Thinking = Binge
See how that happens!?!?
It’s important to understand that all foods can fit into your diet everyday. In fact, the body requires all nutrients in order to work most efficiently and effectively. Take for instance carbohydrates…did you know that brain needs at least 150 grams of carbohydrate per day for brain function? Um, yup…that’s why you get cranky when you haven’t had any!
So, how do you feel in control again and start over. It all starts with giving yourself unconditional permission to eat all foods. Everytime those thoughts of guilt for eating a food you enjoy creep in, remind yourself it’s okay to eat it and enjoy it.
Remember, all foods can fit!
1. Make a post-it or sign giving yourself permission to eat. Put it on the fridge, the pantry, on your computer, and/or the table.
Here’s some examples:
I deserve to eat
Food is nourishing for my body
I need to eat
I can eat what and how much I want
2. Say it over and over to yourself every meal and snack you eat! Yes, over and over. You have been telling yourself for so long that you can’t eat those foods, you will need to counterbalance all the restrictive talk! You CAN eat it!
It’s will take daily practice. Remember, you are an adult and no one should shame you about what or how much you eat. Only you can decide that!